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Wednesday, March 28, 2012

The Facts of Life

ain't enough? people come and go, and you should accept the reason why they came in your life. why they leaved after giving your life and say i do ". isn't it funny? get fall to someone whom you think he's the right man for you, then you will wake up one day.. you're alone and facing all the pain he gave after loving him. absolutely in pain...

Facts in this journey of life.. no one is fair..we can do what we want even hurting people...we don't care someones feelings.. . yes, no one is cared in everybody's feelings...as long as we are happy,we don't mind it. is there anyone here who cared? i don't think so...
in the situation of getting part ways of one couple with kids...(scene) one said, "this is better for us.. we don't love each other anymore.. we are fighting and arguing everyday...all the respects gone... so why we need to stay together?".. the other one said," yeah it is better, for our children sake.. i don't want them to see us fighting.. i don't want them to see me crying...i don't want them to hate us both. go on.. lets part our ways.. whatever you want... just be happy." ahhhhhhhhhhh..crazy idea..
they  love their kids? i don't think so..they cared the feeling of their children? hmm..unfortunately no...
The children went to the custody of their father...again, man said.." i am doing my best to take care of my kids.." i am feeding them properly... i am aware of their needs" a man is very proud to his self. huh! aware of their needs???? till when?
Precisely what i am pointing of! have you noticed or realized the true feelings of the kids? we, parents do realize the true emotions of our children? i don't think so... if somebody did, for sure, it will turn to ignoration... co'z we cant handle the situation...or worst we are blinded by anger with someone who gave us pain.
On the contrary...both of them are happy. really???
Me? i do care with my children feelings... i know they are hurt. 
yes, this is the facts of life.. we cannot handle all the situations...
But......
If we can control our feelings. lets try...to avoid hurting someone.

and instead of parting ways... try to fix it up.. in gods name!